I stumbled (if one can stumble online) onto the Vanity Fair Proust Questionaire with Emma Thompson.
When asked, "What is the quality you most like in a man?" - she replied, "Uxoriousness."
I admit - I have no idea what that means. I now stand in awe of her vocabulary.
But most of all, I admire her answer to this question:
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
Then who would I be?
Because no matter how flawed we are, we are all that we are.